Quotes from Brene Brown's Work

The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.

Integrity is choosing Courage over Comfort.
Choosing what’s right over what’s fun, fast or easy; and practising your values not just professing them.

We don’t trust people who don’t struggle, don’t have bad days or hard times.

It's not the critic who counts.

Courage is contagious.

If you’re not in the arena, I’m not interest in your feedback.

Cruelty is Cheap, Easy and Chickenshit.

Leaders must either invest a reasonable amount of time attending to fears and feelings or squander an unreasonable amount of time trying to manage ineffective and unproductive behaviour.

We are not here to fit in.

Mastery Requires Feedback

Move information from your head to your heart via your hands.

Clear is Kind. Unclear is unkind. 

Who we are - is how we lead.

If we don’t have the skills to get back up, we may not risk falling.

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